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The Soft Life Strategy: Why Resting Is a Power Move

February 26, 20251 min read

We’ve been conditioned to believe that grinding non-stop is the only way to get ahead. That rest is lazy. That self-care is selfish.

Sis, that’s a lie.

The soft life strategy isn’t about avoiding ambition—it’s about understanding that rest is a power move. That peace is productive. That burnout isn’t proof of your worth.

1. Rest Fuels Your Success

A 2023 Harvard Business Review study found that leaders who prioritize rest are 30% more productive than those who don’t. That’s right—grinding yourself into exhaustion isn’t making you better, it’s making you slower.

2. Boundaries = Liberation

The soft life isn’t about quitting your job and living on a beach—it’s about choosing what aligns with your peace and saying NO to what doesn’t. Try this: Before saying yes to something, ask, “Does this serve me, or just drain me?” If it’s the latter, let it go.

3. Joy is an Act of Resistance

When you prioritize joy, peace, and ease, you are actively rejecting a system that wants you overworked, underpaid, and exhausted. Your happiness is not extra—it’s essential.

💡 Soft Life Challenge:
For the next 7 days, set one small boundary that protects your peace (saying no to an extra project, blocking off personal time, or prioritizing sleep). Watch how it shifts your energy.

Owner of Priority You LLC.

Vanette Hill

Owner of Priority You LLC.

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